You can watch the following video on why some bearded guy is going to vote Yes on Prop 8, or you can just go with my summary: He’s a douchebag.
It is inconsistent to have gay friends and vote Yes on Prop 8. That’s because you see their lives (not “lifestyles”) as inherently wrong. How you can “love” someone but not respect them (or give them equal rights) is beyond me.
Vote NO on Prop 8.